Not many people are quick to post stories of themselves wrecking a mirror!
I've played with a first surface mirror from a polaroid disposable instant camera to see how much it could take. It's easy to scratch.. I've also managed to leave a mark on the mirror surface of TLR mirror that I had taken out and replaced already. The old one was really dirty, so I cleaned it some, but it was degraded already, tarnished, so I didn't really care about it..
The spray canned air I blew on it I had just shaken, so some liquid was in the tube.
The problem with that is that the liquid blasts out of the tube so fast that it packs a punch when it hits the surface, on top of that the sudden impact might make it evaporate on impact, doing even more damage. This can damage a negative too.
So if you're blowing droplets off the mirror, make damn sure that there's nothing but the 'air' coming out of the tube.. Blow a little while aimed away, and never shake the can while blowing with it.
Most references simply say never to use canned air, because it's too hard to explain how to do it right.. With a hammer and chisel, one can both sculpt and destroy.
I also whacked an already toasted beam splitter in a yashica using a Q tip swab- that film was really only about one molecule thick!
A biggie to watch out for when cleaning SLR mirrors is the focusing screen. Any alcohol of most any type on that thing will mark it forever.. So you either need to remove the screen, which comes right out on serious cameras, but is a risky task in itself, or make a 'dam' the right size out of card to protect the screen from the back of whatever swab you deem safe. Don't scratch anything putting the protection in there!
I use partial cotton balls straight from the bag, never touched by me, dragged on the mirror by just their own weight, saturated with ethyl alchohol, but not dripping.
Then i use canned air CAREFULLY to blow the thing dry, being mindful of where the drops are going, avoiding the chance of getting any on the screen.
It's a bit of a bitch to clean first surface mirrors, more info can be found in telescope sites, those poor things are often open to the air and get condensation on them, so must be cleaned often compared to a slr/tlr mirror.
Prevention is better than cleaning those things, but some ebay finds of slr bodies that have been sitting breech up on a shelf for the past ten years are gonna need some help.