I thought about volunteering for NILMDTS. I talked to a physician friend who worked in the maternity ward of a very large hospital. He told me two things. The nurses ask the parents and then photograph the deceased infant when permission is given. He felt that NILMDTS would be a terrific mental burden. He told not to do it. He said the only way he can deal with that type of loss is to cherish every stressful birth. But a NIOLMDTS photographer only sees sadness and loss... over and over again.
So, I took his advice, and I have great deal of admiration and respect got all the NILMDTS photographers.