I can hardly sit down and get 1 roll done at a time, let alone 20,000.
I have 2 suggestions: whenever you are at your computer, start scanning but don't sit down just to do this, you'll end up hating it so much you'll put it off. That's not the point,take it slow, don't try to scan for 10 hours straight for a whole month (that's what it will take on a V700 for example).
The other option would be to pay someone to do this for you, it's going to cost you, but then again, you could probably stand on the corner for all the hours you would be scanning and break even.
http://www.scancafe.com/ is known to provide good service on quality equipment, they even take care of the basic dust removal and all that excrutiating post processing that takes longer then the scanning! All for 29 cents a slide. And you get to choose which images you want to pay for (you have to buy at least half of them).
However, 20,000 slides at 30 cents a peice comes out to $6000, that's quite a bit of money, but if you consider buying the scanner yourself (a Nikon 5000 for example) and the opportunity cost of sitting on your butt for a whole month and making your eyes bleed... You could probably work minimum wage and offset most of the cost. Not that you should do that, but it puts things in perspective.
If you decide to do it yourself, don't cheat yourself out of quality scans, even if these are just for archives, i would spend a bit of extra time and scan them nicely so you can enjoy them and even print them if you so desired, as opposed to having to rescan them for a print worthy scan, do it once, do it well!
Have fun?