If I understand what you are asking, then here are the facts:
The sharpest point is the exact plane of focus for the lens. This is in fact infinitesimally thin, and some lenses with curvature of field may have a curved plane of focus (as if you're inside a dome).
Beyond this plane of sharpest focus, object points are not rendered as points anymore, but as larger and larger blur circles the farther away from the plane of exact focus that they are. Because the eye doesn't have infinitely fine resolution, below a certain value the eye will accept a sufficiently small blur circle to look "sharp". This zone is what is marked on your lens depth of field scale.
The MANY things which affect the apparent depth of field include:
Your own eyesight (worse = better apparent DOF)
film to subject distance (very shallow in macro photography)
lens focal length (longer = shallower)
shooting aperture (wider = shallower)
film size (larger formats tend to have shallower DOF with the same lens angle of view)
image magnification: viewing a contact print gives a different impression than if you project the image on a big screen. The bigger you magnify the image, the shallower the apparent depth of field.
Picture viewing distance: the closer you are to the image, the less the apparent DOF. Something that looks sharp from far away may be blurry up close.
You should be aware that the DOF scale of many 35mm film format lenses is based on the assumption that you have average good eyesight, and you are viewing an 8x10 print from 1 foot away.
Regarding your question of the 75mm medium format camera, I can tell you that with 6x6 and 6x9 cameras, the DOF is very shallow at f/3.5.