Midlife Crisis?

Stu W

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Well, I'm on a 3 day swing, have a ton of things to do around the house, and haven't got out of my t-shirt and sweat pants in 2 days. I just can't get motivated.
1.I've been replacing my windows one at a time because the well known replacement window company did such a lousy job.
2.I've been replacing my leaking shower pan which was just done by a pro a few years ago because he did such a lousy job. We hired someone to redo it but fired him because he was doing the same lousy job.
3.My 2 year old roof that according to firestone should last 30+ years is leaking.
4. I had my brick porch replaced and it is so cockeyed when viewed from across the street as to be an embarassment-What do you expect for $20.000. I think I'll buy the mason a spirit level for xmas.
5. I repair my cars myself because each time I let someone else repair them they're worse than when they were brought in.
6. A woman ran a dead red light, hit me, admitted it on the police report, the insurance company report, and the state accident report but sued me for 30million anyway.
7.Worst thing on the list-MyDad had a minor surgical procedure, was hospitalized for a few days, nobody checked his urine drainage tube-it clogged-and Dad didn't realize it cause he had a neurogenic bladder. Well being the tough guy that he was he beat the complete renal failure but during his now extended stay contracted every hospital borne disease in the book and finally passed away. All because the staff was too lazy to check a simple thing like urine output.
8.The Exxon Valdez runs aground, trashes the west coast, and the oil companies make billions in windfall profits.
9.A hurricane hits the US, has no effect on oil supply, I pay $80 to fill my car, and the oil companies make billions in windfall profits.
10.My home heating gas bill goes up 60% just because.
11.The jerk across the street from me hounds the electric company so much that they eminant domain my property, because she didn't want a transformer on hers, put a pole and a big tranformer on it, and run the wires across to feed her house.

Anyway, being a baby boomer, unfortunately I can remember back before this kind of crap. I remember when competition lowered prices, when people did their jobs, neighbors were considerate, stores were closed on Sunday, we ate dinner at the dinner table, when I got in trouble for running out into the street without looking and got hit by a car, and things were built to last.

I look at my M3's and I marvel at the way they're put together. They were truly designed to be infinitely rebuildable. Maintain them, and they should last forever. They represent "the good old days". The problem is will there be any craftsmen left to keep them going.

Moderator, feel free to delete my rant. Stu
 
My sympathy also. I have to agree with you on hospitals, and nearly everything else on your list - look out for your own family and friends, make the extra effort, because no one else will. For me, that includes RFF and its members.
 
Maybe things will have a better turn in the next few days Stu...Sometimes u r down and sometimes u feel on the top of the world...Courage!

I hope ur daughter is fine now Brian...
 
I think today's world is more difficult to deal with when you are old enough to remember when things were different. And they deffinately were different. My parents have been gone more than 20 years and in some ways I'm happy for them. They grew up during the Depression when life was slower paced and people appreciated the "little things" in their lives, a person's word was their bond and one took responsibility for his or her actions rather than trying to blame someone else.
 
Brian, I do hope that she continues to strengthen, and that you and she enjoy each other as much as the 'photos show so well.

Stu, sometimes you just gotta keep on keeping on........go to it.
 
Get a lot of exercise: daily workouts or runs of a couple of miles. IMO it's the best cure for the blues, rage, mourning, fury, confusion, hatred etc. If you're supposed to be angry it'll help you
focus and enjoy it.
 
I'm sorry for the loss of your father, Stu. The rest of the stuff-you need to get out of the city, man!

Brian, glad your daughter is recovering.
 
djon said:
Get a lot of exercise: daily workouts or runs of a couple of miles. IMO it's the best cure for the blues, rage, mourning, fury, confusion, hatred etc. If you're supposed to be angry it'll help you
focus and enjoy it.


I agree...my arms were built with a young boy's rage and continue to grow with a young man's stress.

I am very sorry to hear about your father and hope that things begin to look up for you.
 
Thanks guys for listening to my rant, even if it was a tad off subject. Sort of like free therapy. Now that It's off my chest maybe I'll spend tomorrow doing something productive. Stu
 
Really sorry Stu. While you are explaining the eminent domain stuff to your lawyer, do tell him/her about malpractice too.

I suggest you look for a classical music performance/rehearsal (Julliard at Lincoln Center is not a bad idea) as soon as convenient. Even in the 21st century there are some people who do not spare time and effort and strive to reach their best performance. Not many, admittedly (can't think of another profession right now). Please try it, even if you don't care about the music; obviously you care about people.

Brian, I am sure your daughter will grow up with a very strong personality - which is a big present from heaven.

For me, I have to watch out for my 3 kids because their doctor is married to the head of the local hospital's pediatric yard, and she has a tendency to provide him with patients, and in turn he has a tendency to maximise bed occupancy (probably a performance indicator). I understood that too late, but no hospital-caused disease yet.

(All this is not at all off topic to me, and yes, my 'new' M6 rangefinder flares much more than my 'old' M2 ever did.)
 
Alec just pointed out this thread to me. Stu and Brian, you have my very best wishes! Reading this thread gave me yet more proof of what a kind-hearted community this is. I wonder what it is about rangefinders that they attract such nice people. 🙂
 
That sucks, Stu. Try to enjoy the small happy moments of the everydays, because there are plenty; and relax a bit, as the others said, by doing something which is not very important or stressful, regularly. Shooting a rf is one of them 😉
Don't watch the (always bad) news in the TV and don't take it too serious when other people complain, you have your own problems to worry about (like everybody does), be a bit more selfish.
 
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