The Couple Of the Moment have to
truly be "into" the RF/PJ-style of photography for their wedding shoot. It helps to talk it out in detail beforehand, and go over certain crucial details (such as whether they or family members are okay with just b/w or if the mother of the bride will go to pieces if there aren't a
few color shots).
I don't "do" weddings. It's too much of a hassle, needing to play photographer and psychologist at the same time. I tell people, plead with them,
not to ask me to shoot their wedding (even though my younger sister thanks me for being the "second photographer" for her wedding years back, when the outfit that "officially" did the deed promptly went bankrupt shortly afterward, leaving my photos as the
only document of the event for years; e-mail me if you want to know all the gory details). But they find me anyway, and twist my arm mightily (and it's always the bride...
why is it always the bride?).
The good news is that, at least the last two times out, I got to do it my way; a pair of RFs, mostly b/w (chromogenic), and very much in the PJ style, with a few liberal flourishes of my own. I know of (and have worked for), a few NYC wedding photogs who charge a ton for their work, and for good reason. But I work on a smaller scale, and without an assistant (kind of a bad idea, but when you do this reluctantly, and on a shoestring, good help can be tough to find on short notice), so it becomes a high-wire act that I hope to do only a handful of times in the course of a decade. But when a great image comes forth, it seems all worth it.
- Barrett