Dear Roger,
I'm not sure if you meant to say this. In order to change from a 43mm lens to a 21, and then shoot the same scene you took with the 43mm, you can't do it from the same spot, unless you crop your photo to a 43mm equivalent angle of view. To take the same scene with the 21mm, using its full angle of view, you have to move closer to the scene, in the ratio of 21/43. That done, I agree we would then (theoretically) view the print from a closer distance--closer by that same ratio.
If we took a second picture with the 21mm, from the same spot, we will then include a wider view than we did with the 43mm lens. The perspective, however, will not have changed. To quote Gunter Osterloh, "Distance determines perspective: focal length determines cropping." Same spot, different lens = same perspective. different distance = different perspective (regardless of focal length).
I'm not sure there is a single answer here. It seems like it depends on whether we want to be true to the original perspective of the normal lens, or to be true to the angle of view of the lens in use. I was thinking of the latter in my earlier post.