Rayt
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I know people too that did exactly that, my mom and my sister in law. It is not easy. Immigration is a whole different discussion though, because of different histories. I was talking about the myth that gets perpetuated of being able to 'make it' in the US, more than the reality.
In reality the differences in the systems are not nearly as big as they are made out to be. For the most part social services work better in europe because voters expect and demand that they work. In the US people expect them not to work or pretend they don't exist. There simply is less incentive for these services to improve themselves.
I think being poor in the US is especially tough, and it is a harder cycle to break than it is in much of Europe. I am generalizing of course, but having a safety net generally does contribute to upward mobility.
It’s probably a subject more apt to talk over beers than on social media when words sometimes don’t translate well. My background is similar to Calzone’s also American but have been living abroad for 30 years and have explored the worse slums in Asia. I have travelled extensively around Europe having worked for European companies most of my career and also some US, Chinese and Japanese firms. I suppose I am older and have seen and experienced a lot. I sometimes am absolutely overwhelmed. Seeing entire families sleeping on the sidewalk. I right now live in an absolute social utopia where 60+ percent of the population is on public assistance. There is no need for the young to strive at least not out of necessity. At the same time I see brave young people from Vietnam learning Japanese in 3 months so they can get a job at some Tokyo sushi bar as migrant workers. These people are my heroes like my parents who worked 70 hours a week so their kids can get their degrees.