"PC police": what a "cute" way to formulate an offensive response, but if that makes you feel good, knock yourself out. There is nothing about political correctness above, but writing "my wife happens to be a woman" and the lack of intention of sexism doesn't negate the tonedeafness. Perhaps the best example of this tonedeafness or obtusenss I can think has to do with racism: I have a friend who is an "ABC" (American-born Chinese) — she once told me how sometimes when she was introduced to someone he or she would say, "Oh, I just love Chinese food" and my friend commented that, when the same person met a French women, he or she would not say, "Oh, I love French food", the point obviously being that her being Chinese was the first thing that person meeting her could think.
Obviously, there is no overt or intended sexism in the original posting, but the idea that the statement "the camera is for my wife" being an adaquate specification that should elicit useful responses, which one sees all over photo forums, where in effect, people speak of cameras "for the little woman", says enough in itself — it's the equivalent of saying, "I love Chinese food" when being introduced to a Chinese.
—Mitch/Pak Nam Pran
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