Bokeh is not defined as "out of focus" but as "out of focus rendering". While there is nothing wrong with out of focus space in a picture (it often can't be avoided, or is desirable for better subject isolation) ....
Yeah, someone is posting a very confused poll.
To the OP, are you asking "do you like a lot of depth of field or a short depth of field?" That, is the question. And the answer is it depends on what I'm doing. A portrait photographer typically tries to focus on the subject, so traditionally you let the background go out of focus. Extreme depth of field is useful for landscapes and architecture, where you want the foreground flowers AND the mountains in focus.
Depth of field is one of the key artistic tools of photography. Our eyes work on short depth of field. You focus on the monitor in front of you, the room beyond is out of focus. The opposite, infinite depth of field, is what cell phone cameras and other wide angle, slow lenses can give. Useful at other times. I shoot more wide open than stopped down, almost always.
Asking "do you like bokeh" is asking "do you like good out of focus areas.?" Nothing to do with depth of field, and what some like in out of focus areas, some hate. It's subjective.
(Remember, "bokeh" is the
quality of things out of focus. It is not the
fact things
are out of focus)