FrankS said:
Sometimes you have to listen to your heart.
Frank, another of your famous truisms. I totally agree that listening to hearts is good/necessary, but getting back to your earlier advise, there are many realities that must be attended to when growing up. First things, first... wasn't that in one of your cookies? At my age I KNOW what my priorities are. I don't hate my job, but there are many more fun things out there that I sorta', kinda' wish I were doing. But htey don't pay as well, would require relocation, etc, etc, -- all of which is not a good thing right now. I have adult responsibilities and must "take care of business".
Here's how I see life priorities... you can agree with them or not (the specific order can be altered to meet individual needs, of course): God, family/friends, education, job/career, emotional maturity, home, and then toys. Honour is in their somewhere, but I don't want to step on Frank's toes so I'll leave that priority for him to deal with.
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My Chinese fortune cookie wisdom:
"You have to give up to get".
"A little sacrifice up front reaps many rewards in the end."
"It's better to suffer early and shorter, than later and longer."
"You have to stay true to the course else you quickly get misdirected."
"If you don't know where you are going, any road will do; but if you do know where you are going it is best to get their in the most direct way."
"If you keep flip-flopping then all you'll end up doing is flipping and flopping."
See, I eat Chinese food too!
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