The big issue is the possibility that the software of tomorrow won't be able to read the files we create today in anything but the most important filetypes.
I see DNG as an Adobe creation, more exposed the whims and business currents that drive Adobe. I want images to be available to my grandkids, say 40 years from now. Will Adobe be around 40 years from now?
I'm keeping my .NEF files. I use Lightroom, but I export the sidecar files, because I'm not counting on my Lightroom catalog being usable forever, more likely something will open the .NEF with the sidecar. I make good jpegs of every image and for special images a TIFF as greater insurance of future usability.
I'm betting someone will keep producing software that opens .NEF files.
Will future software be able to open DNGs? PSDs? Lightroom catalog? The iPhoto catalog? I'm not counting on any of these.
I'll bet on NEF, but I hedge by keeping good jpeg and/or TIFF.