bmattock said:
Thanks again, my friends. Yes, I'm getting practice for the wedding shoot - in fact, I'm going over to the church today to go over my shot list and make sure that my film choice is sane, that I have the right places to stand blocked out, and so on.
Good luck with the wedding shoot! A good friend of mine got married last year, and had a mutual friend shoot the wedding. In the back of my head, I was always hoping that he would have asked me. Our friend is a great photog though, went to the Kodak School of Photography and had a 1DSmk2 & great glass, studio lights, etc. It turns out that she specialized in still object photography and this was her first wedding.
She started off taking a lot of candid shots, and I thought she was doing a good job. As the wedding progressed, I saw that she really started to get nervous. You only have one shot at the pictures, and you _have_ to be in the right place and know your gear. During the portrait shots, with all of the studio lights, etc., I overheard the priest asking if she had done this before. It became readily apparent that she was new to wedding photography. She had a hard time getting everyones attention and getting them in place for the pictures. She wasn't fluid with the setup/tear-down. The shots took too long, and she was always fiddling with the flash angles, etc.
When I overheard the priest, I had a pit in my stomach, because I secretly had wanted to shoot the wedding. It was at that very moment that I gained a profound amount of respect for wedding photographers. I saw all of the missed shots, and then realized that I probably would have missed them too. A wedding is a very special day that cannot be re-done. You have one shot to capture the magic moments. Sub-par work, and you take away from their magic. Tensions run high with the families, and there is drama, and the bridge/groom have no idea what the hell is going on. But the parents do, and you have to manage them.
I'm not trying to scare you. I'm just reliving my fears of wanting to shoot a wedding and see it go bad. If shoot weddings now, it is just for the extra candid shots. Being _the_ photographer scares me. Too much stress in my mind.
I'm curious to hear your results. Perhaps my one bad experience scared me too much, or perhaps I just don't have enough experience/confidence in my photographic skills at this point.
-Paul