bmattock
Veteran
Theres a major question of ethics that runs through us as photographers.
There are plenty of people who confuse personal ethics with law.
We all know how annoying it is to miss a shot because of grumpy people, but we also need to respect people's privacy.
According to whom?
It is, no doubt, "creepy" to grab a shot of somebody without looking.
I don't agree.
Unless I'm sure it will produce an extremely provoctive image, I probably wouldn't take a picture of someone having a terrible day or someone that looks a bit off their rocker. That could end up pretty badly.
Those are personal choices, and of course I respect your right to make them. The problem, from my point of view, comes when people either a) come to the erroneous conclusion that their own point of view is, in fact, the law; or b) come to the equally erroneous conclusion that their own point of view is shared by everyone and therefore should be universally adhered to voluntarily.
In most parts of the USA, for the moment, it is still legal to photograph in public, without the consent of the people or things you are photographing. Unless and until that changes, that is my guiding light. If I decide, like you, not to take a photo because I feel a person might react very badly, or I just don't feel like doing something that obviously is going to upset them, that's my choice - and I don't mind making that choice from time to time. But I refuse to relinquish, ameliorate, water-down, or otherwise capitulate the rights of all photographers because I make a personal decision not to take a particular photograph.
By the same token, if I decide to take a photograph, I'm going to take it. I don't care who thinks it is rude, I don't care who thinks I am unethical, and it does not bother me in the least if it gets up people's sleeves. I live within the rule of law, but my ethics are my own, and I reject anyone's attempts to make me behave as they wish I would.