I don't know. Without being there I just can't say.
I did photograph my grandmother while she was dying. She was in the hospital, had had a stroke. I spent a fair amount of time there, holding her hand, talking to her, just sitting there with her. And also took some pictures. She was most certainly dying at the time and passed shortly after.
Photography is part of how I interact with and handle the world around me. It's very personal.
A nurse took offense, but taking those pictures was important for me. I don't know if that makes me a ghoul, tasteless, or maybe just selfish.
I don't know if I'll ever share those photos, even with family that's in them. They're difficult and painful to deal with. I rarely look at them. Thinking about them is hard.
I'm glad I have them.