oftheherd
Veteran
I solved the doubting-the-meter problem by sending it back to the manufacturers. The meter is more than twenty years old (a Gossen Lunasix 3) but was recalibrated, with traceable certificate, to better than 1/8 stop throughout the ranges. There isn't really another way to be sure of whats going on. It didn't even cost much or take very long - I was surprised.
Recalibration of a meter you didn't buy 1st hand or is old and has had a rough life isn't a bad idea. But as long as a meter gives consistant readings, that is really all you need. I have a Sekonic L28c2 that I love. My Gossen Luna Pro and Luna Pro SBC read in lower light (although the Sekonic goes to surpirisingly low light). They don't always agree. But they are consistant as far as I can tell. And all meters don't always agree, but not a big problem if they aren't more than a stop apart.
Anyway, I can test if they give me the photos I want. If not, how much more or less exposure I need. As long as the meter is consistant, I always know how much more or less I need to go from what they say. I would love to have a perfectly calibrated meter at all times. But I would still have to check the negatives I get to ensure they are the type of negative I want for my photos.
All that to say, don't worry about having the most expensive meter as long as you get one that is consistant. But I would recommend the Sekonic or the Gossens. They work well for me.