..welcome rachel and other new femme fotogs...rachel, i was introduced to anais nin by a woman i was dating in the '80's and am a huge fan of hers...i am re-reading volume 1 of her diaries now...just found
www.anaisnin.com...neat site.
... i recommend her on so many levels for everyone ("adults")...she spoke to themes/ideas/concerns/etc that touch the lives of women and men equally.
...one particular passage has stayed with me over the years and helped me process the "break-up" stage that relationships go through sometimes...forgive my very loose paraphrasing /misquoting here, it dealt with her going through the end of a relationship, here goes : "i would take off the coat of the old love ( like it was an actual garment) and tenderly place it on a hanger and put it away in the closet of my mind"...i imagine alot of us have bittersweet memories like that that we may have "stored away" like that...thanks for indulging me here...
hasta la vista, adieu, dasvidanya,,fino al prossimo tempo, auf wiedersehen, and later y’all
kenneth
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"...patience and shuffle the cards" miguel cervantes
"nothing can be learned" herman hesse
"everybody knows everything" jack kerouac
"some memories are realities and better than anything" willa cather
" doo-wacka doo, wacka doo" roger miller
"we have met the enemy and they is us !" pogo