wow...i didn't mean to open up a can of worms. well, mostly not
keep in mind i'm not some "old school" member or anything, but it feels like i did arrive right before this place REALLY grew (with the contest and all). at least to me it seems to have changed somewhat drastically. anyhow...there have been a lot of replies in this thread, and thanks for all the input. i like to see that some other people feel as i do, but also enjoy differing viewpoints (it's what makes the world go 'round, you know). since i can't reply tit for tat...i'll just sum things up from my point of view in a concrete manner (instead of being nebulous like i had been).
first of all, i personally dislike the new classifieds as a buyer (and i'm finding out, as a seller). some people like them, some people don't...to each his (or her) own. the reason i don't appreciate paying for listing an ad is as i mentioned before. it's more about selling gear to online friends for what i paid for it (or less), and not really about making money. so why get charged?! if (as nikon kyu said) those days of "keep it in the family" are gone...then i might as well sell things on ebay. you have the potential to reach 5000 people here, but the potential to reach millions on ebay. so if it boils down to a strict numbers game...ebay wins hands down. so...some have mentioned that w/ the sponsorship...you do not have to pay fees for listing. so why not try here first. that brings me to my second viewpoint that is fouling things up...i do not want to pay that sponsorship fee.
here's why. when it was first announced...it was going to be a "premium gallery membership" or something like that. people that paid the 25 bucks would get more uploads allowed per day, and larger file size quotas. i chipped in on joes camera, and i was going to buy the gallery membership most likely. i was in no rush on that one though. it started off as "membership buys you x, y, and z...but existing non-paying members will not lose anything they currently have", and quickly degraded from there. the new classifieds soon got lumped into the deal, as did the PM mailbox quota. i logged on to find out that i no longer could store up to 70 messages in my PM box (now only 20), and i could not list classifieds unless i used the new system and paid for it. so it was a bait and switch in my mind, and for that...i refuse to take part. naturally it's jorge's prerogative to do as he wishes, but likewise...it is mine to object. i tried not to bitch and moan too much, and just deal with it. but from time to time (like when i want to sell something)...it still eats at me.
anyhow...i've typed too much on this. i really wasn't trying to go into all this, i just wanted a realistic gauge on sales because it did seem to me as if things had cooled off. if you read this far...thanks for putting up w/ my rant

i plan on listing stuff tomorrow here (time permitting), as in the long run..i would still like to see a fellow member get the stuff if possible.
and joe...to answer your question. i submitted an offer for a noctilux that was a really good deal (about $1600). i didn't to mention that, as the noctilux often seems to start huge wars by its very mention. i have wanted one for years, and i finally found a deal that seemed worth it to me. it suits a lot of what i enjoy shooting, and the extra 2 stops over what i have now will be very welcome. as for weight..i'm not so concerned. anyhow...the wife and i have a deal. "the law of conservation of money spent on camera gear". if i buy something...i sacrifice other things to pay for it. i have plenty of money "in" camera gear...and don't need to add any more to that. i need to save for our trip to japan next year.
whew. god i'm long winded.
cheers all!