I will second that!!! You are not alone!!
I think the digital P&S are great for casual and family snaps, but are a great disservice for photographers. When I hear photogaphers talk about how much they hate digital, I ask them why. 95% of the time its the same issues. Shutter lag, no manual overrides, slow autofocus, slow menu access to the features, poor exposures. All digital P&S issues.
So, I take my S2 pro, put it in manual mode, and hand it to them saying, "Give this a try". After taking a few images, their eyes light up and they say, "Now thats what I'm talking about!". No required menu access to change controls, familiar manual controls for shuuter/aperture/ISO/metering/etc, real manual focus lenses, excellent martix metering, traditional SLR feel and control layout. Turn off the LCD and they would swear they were shooting film.
Then I turn on AF-C, Dynamic Tracking, focus priority, and go to 5fps mode and tell them to follow a car down the road and hold down the shutter button while it passes. They get a series of perfectly exposed and focused images. Rarely ever a miss. Sweet, traditional manual AND automation that actually works in the same body.
But their eyes go dim again when they hear to cost to ante up 🙂 But with time, thats coming down also as the technology progresses.