Hi Sanders,
I am an infrequent poster here but I've been doing digital B&W since the get go, at first with Iris printers and Cone materials, then the progression of Epsons. I did this professionally and operated as a service for other photographers. Before that I was a commercial and fine art darkroom printer for color and B&W, practiced and calibrated to the Zone system, the whole enchilada.... I also did a lot of pre-press and 4/c litho print work as a designer.
Last Fall I realized that my photos and their audience exist entirely online and that a computer display is the ultimate photographic display media. A monitor has a much greater range than any paper-based medium, analog or inkjet. Digital displays gives us deep blacks, brilliant whites, an infinite range of grey tones and subtle colors, and punch and power ~ all superior to any paper-based media. Images can be zoomed in for study (and that is so much more satisfying than straining to look at some paper print under glass with reading glasses).
I put my last "art" printer on the curb and sold the remaining inks and papers on Craigslist and haven't looked back. It has been liberating not to have to deal with printing anymore and I do not miss it one bit. It is so much more exciting to make pictures. When I edit, I find that making a large jpg for display requires all of the skill and experience I can muster because a computer display shows everything and is less forgiving than paper.
Raising your print prices allows you to use a variety of excellent artisan vendors for print making when you need to produce an old-fashioned paper print. And I can afford to make a few nicer prints for framed display around the home... it is far more affordable than maintaining a printer that gets infrequent use. I have no intention of printing for gallery shows that are not pre-paid, and if someone wants a small print for reference, then the little office printer will make a decent rough (even if they are purple, which prevents them from becoming precious). I will also use Shutterfly, Blurb, MILK, and other online POD type services based on price/efficiency.
Booksmart Studios in Rochester has a range of fine ink jets and papers, plus skilled artists to do professional ink jets when I need them:
http://www.booksmartstudio.com
Elevator Digital in Toronto (closer to me) will make digital Durst Lambda prints on silver paper that are excellent:
http://www.elevatordigital.ca
Really, how many prints do you need? I have closets and shelves full of print boxes that go years between even being glanced at. When I look at large images on a Retina iPad I can see the image better.
Why print at all?
As for the Leica question, when I have gone through my Leica phases and purchased exotic/unreasonable older lenses, I eventually came to the determination that an inexpensive but new Voightlander lens was the best all around "user" lens that suffered from none of the mechanical limitations or wear that I was getting from old Leica glass that cost several times more. And when the VC lens started to wear and develop a wobble or get coating marks, I could simply pass it on and buy another new one, good for a few more years of trouble free service. Frankly, and I must be ignorant or half blind, but I could never see the subtle differences in bokeh or signature that so many photographers on the internet allude to. To me, shooting a lens wide open at /1.4 was all the bokeh I needed, the design or brand didn't matter.
Good luck with the guilt, cheers for your family, and your photos look great... on my screen ;-p