Yes... Thank you oh Anonymous Internet.....
Yes... Thank you oh Anonymous Internet.....
1) People say things on the internet that they would never say in a room full of people....
2) Reactions are immediate and often negative
3) Even comments that face to face would be fairly placid are taken with the most negative undertones
4) Civility on the internet is built over time and unfortunately our interactions with people happen in nanoseconds
5) the mildest unasked for criticism is harsh and elicits anger
Try walking up to a stranger standing with his friends in a neighborhood you have never visited. Offer some well meant advice on how he could improve his appearance, posture, or the wheels on his car. See what happens. Thank god you were on the internet!!!!
Forums often have galleries, albums and a separate critique forum. My plan... Never Offer Criticism unless it's in the critique forum .... Just Never.
I have a friend who is an art historian. He is also an accomplished photographer. He also belongs to many judging groups for photographic and art events. Each first Monday of the month is competition night at our local camera club. It is well attended. Mike had recently joined, and when the club found out his history, they asked him to perform the critique function on competition night.
The first image was judged anonymously by three judges as usual, and then Mike got up to do the first critique. As he spoke, you could see the 50 people in the room slowly transition into a medieval mob of peasants, with torches, wooden pitchforks, axes and ropes. Simply unbelievable...
How dare this interloper come into the "Good Ol Boy" midst of this event and harshly criticize on of "Their Own"?
Sorry, I want none of this. Criticism given in the kindest way is always a deal breaker amongst strangers.