A lot of good conversation here - haven't been able to check the thread since Friday - been helping a friend with a documentary over the weekend.
As the OP I just wanted to try and respond in general to everyone and reiterate that it was specifically the long lens that bothered me, but more so, the photographer acting guilty. I think it is a lesson we can all take. I say all the time, when working on the street don't act guilty, and you won't emanate guilt. As with a lot things, I believe very good photography is the result of cultivating a lot of things that don’t seem to deal directly with photography itself – social grace, compassion, empathy etc. go a long way in making good images on the street.
I also wanted to point out that there is a way to work on the street with permission. In one of Cartier-Bresson's books he mentioned that all about all the street work he did when he visited China only began after he was granted clearance by his Chinese government "guide" (babysitter) to work in a particular area, which he honored. There is a time and place for the confrontational street image, in which the subject is complicit with the photographer, ala Diane Arbus. But it is possible to enter a space, let people know you’re there, then sit back and watch things unfold. It takes more patience than just walking and snapping, but I believe yields better results because you can get your intuition and brain more involved. People are going to just stand there for a half hour staring at the camera and smiling – they will eventually go back to whatever they are doing, and assuming they are okay with your presence, then you can work freely, and obtain spontaneous images.
The only detractor’s comments I feel a need to address is NH3’s comment, because it was unconstructive, and contained the simplistic insult that I am pretending to be a photographer. Well, apart from the obvious idiocy of the comment, seeing as anyone who takes photographs is by definition, a photographer, I would say let’s compare portfolios buddy. It’s true I am an amateur – it’s French for “for the love of it.” And that’s why I do it. The only professional photography I would want to do would be photojournalism, and I am not able to move from city to city and take the low pay at the moment as I am raising a family. Are you insinuating you are a pro? If so, I’ think you probably ought to have some stones and put up or shut up. Send me a link to your site, or perhaps a list of the shows you’ve been in. If YOU had any idea how much of my heart, soul and time goes into photography, you’d have made your point without it being a “rant.” To be amateur is not to pretend to do something, but to be pro means you do something for money. What involves more passion do you think? Getting paid to do something under the guidelines of an employer, or actually PAYING one’s own money and time to work for one’s self?
With my defensive “rant” out the way and my blood pressure lowering, I will address your point, because it is similar to one several others raised – I realize it seems like a double standard for me to have an aversion to being photographed. That’s sort of why I posted. Not everything in life is so clear. And yes, the lens absolutely does make a difference, to me anyway. If you are not schooled visually enough to know there is an intimacy in a telephoto closeup of a face that is not there when taking the same image with a wide angle lens form the same spot, I can’t help you. Yes, if he was in my face with a 28, it would obtain the same intimacy, but then I could have also said something to the guy, and I would have respected him more – he probably wouldn’t have gotten the label of “jerk.” The guy seemed a “jerk” to me for being such a pansy about being discovered.
Regardless, it wasn’t a direct insult to him – as I stated I didn’t even talk to him. I didn’t post his name, or his face or anything – to you he’s just a nameless jerk with a long lens. I’m glad you decided to stand up for our faceless, nameless “jerk,” though and instead attacked me personally, insulting that which is most dear to me. You’ll note I know your “fake” name – NH3 – and I haven’t called you a jerk. My name is Matthew Williams by the way, and I live in Pittsburgh PA, there “NH3.” That’s actually a picture of me taken by my daughter in my avatar, too. Why are you hiding? Is it because you enjoying flaming people more than talking photography in a civil manner?
Alright – that was too long but I feel sufficiently defended now. See you all tomorrow, back at work!