4/3 diagonal is 21.6mm, Nikon/Pentax/Sony APS is 28.4mm, 35mm FF is 43.3mm.
4/3 will in theory, and in practice become diffraction limited before a larger sized sensor of the same technology and relative pixel pitch size and spacing.
We've now established that (1) you can do arithmetic; and (2) you get the same answers as me and everyone else who can also do arithmetic. Congratulations.
Here is the question that you are avoiding: how do you get from there to being "able to see diffraction" in micro 4/3 pictures at web resolution (I'll be generous: 800 pixels wide),
without (you claim) pixel peeping?
(Sneak preview: you don't.)
Here's the problem that you face: At f/22, with a 10 mpix 4/3 sensor, the Olympus Zuiko 50 mm macro delivers a
measured resolution (MTF-50) corresponding to >740 line pairs/ph along the picture's short axis (and hence 1000 lp/ph along the long axis).
That's at f/22, as far as the lens stops down.
Here are the measurements.
In other words, no, you can't see diffraction in images from a 4/3 sensor at web resoution - unless by "web resolution" you mean images larger than 1500 x 2000 pixels, and images taken at f/22 or smaller.
At a more reasonable aperture, f/8, the same lens is Nyquist-limited (right out to the corners!) for the same 3648 x 2736 sensor.
So you can "see" the diffraction limitation of images (and separate this limitation from other sources of noise and contrast degradation) taken on 4/3 cameras on web-based images, exactly
how?
I'm deeply skeptical.