Here's my take on things, if I had an M8.
First off I think Leica handled the PR end of this about as bad as you can.
That said, I can live with the IR filter on the lens. I really only shoot with two focal lengths (35/50), so two or three filters would cover me. Frankly I'm not exactly thrilled about this solution, because I worry about reflections. But given the choice between filters and no digital M, I would use filters.
I'm pretty sure that the white balance issues can and will be addressed with a firmware upgrade.
I don't know enough about the blobs and banding issue to comment on them.
One issue that really interest me, and could be a deal breaker, is the accuracy of the framelines. If they are as bad or worse than the 50 markings in the metered M film bodies I would be very disappointed. I've been shooting Leicas for 10 years now, so I do not expect the framing accuracy of an SLR, but there is a difference between the framing being acceptably close and wildly off the mark.
Cheers,
HL