I was not in the military, but I know the culture vicariously through Grumman which had a huge veteran preference in their hiring.
I gleaned a lot of perspective from men who knew combat and life threatening situations. Men that had a sense of duty and honor.
One Vietnam vet kinda did a confessional to me, I figure because I looked like the enemy. Pretty much he told me of war crimes he committed.
One friend was a Navy SEAL from the Vietnam era. What surprised me that he was a guy around my size.
So the point of all this is about Navy SEAL survival training. They say that 95% of survival is “maintaining a positive mental attitude” no matter what.
Pretty much avoid negative thinking that could lead to negative outcomes; and conversely engage in positive thoughts that can have positive outcomes.
If you know about the Heisenberg Uncertainty Principle, and about positive outcomes, mental attitude definitely can effect outcomes. Research of Cancer patients has proven that mental attitude can effect recovery.
So in a combat situation a Navy SEAL trapped behind enemy lines without ammo, food or water has to come up with a positive spin like, at least I’m not bleeding… help is on the way… I can avoid capture…
So I told this to the husband of the grandchildren who dwells on negative thoughts. My hope is that he can reframe things…
“Maggie” also gets caught up in negative thinking. I don’t say it, but she has no reason to be upset or unhappy because in the balance nothing really bad is happening to us. She cannot count our blessings and see that she is just whining. I guess she makes the choice not to be happy.
Back at my job as a Cyclotron Engineer at a major Cancer hospital, I had an oppressive boss that was demeaning and also was a bully. All I needed to say to myself to center things was, “I am glad I’m not him.” I had a thick skin and pretty much would not get provoked.
In the end I got my revenge when he kinda was pushed out.
So know that no matter how bad things might get that you likely are better off than at least someone else. Put the positive spin on things no matter what, and don’t fall into a death spiral of negative thoughts.
So the deeper meaning here is Maggie, an accomplished woman, feels unsettled and unfulfilled. I kinda pick up that passion and drive are somewhat lacking, and the result is unhappiness and a need to fill an empty hollow within her.
Pretty much the means, security, and freedom is on hand; yet I feel that is kinda wasted because of depressed feelings and in IMHO getting upset over nothing big.
Did you know that you can drown in an inch of water? Pretty much some people will drown themselves in a tea cup.
I don’t have any reason to be unhappy is my attitude. Also some things are not worth getting upset about.
Back in November 2003, I framed the Supreme Court decision that George W. Bush won the election for a second-term the end of Democracy. So today I can accept what is going on today.
I learned back in 2003, I cannot afford to be “my brother’s keeper,” and pretty much had to concentrate on my own survival.
So when I say, most Americans voted for what is currently happening, I only feel bad for the people who didn’t.
I can frame my attitude as somewhat selfish, but I’m cool with that…
Cal