John,
I think wandering is a great thing.
At my 40th High School reunion it was really sad how so many of my friends and people I knew stayed so close to home and in a way never grew up. What was really interesting to my classmates was all the things I did and tried that made me an interesting person, but also said I have an interesting life.
Anyways one day all these "dumb" things we do will amount to an interesting life. Not everyone has personality or character.
Cal
That's actually a great observation and advice.
Last year I lived 4 months in Sweden for a student exchange, had about a week when I could go to NYC (and met Cal).
However I didn't expect people of this day and age to elicit such a baffled response, when they knew about me going to NY on my own.
Heck, fantastic trip. Walk like crazy trying to cover as much of the city in 4 days plus getting that special background about LIC and Brooklyn.
Thinking about moving to Northern Europe again and most probably will live there by the end of the year.
While I live in Spain and there's wonderful weather, the conditions for a career are not good. Also, I live in a sort of resort beach town and it is a sweet death. People who stay here just don't bloom.
Know that 50% of my classmates are employed in a Big 4 accounting company, paid $1600 a month and work past 8h many days. My friend is also there and he's burned out. Not my kind of job but seemingly the only industry theiving here.
To me it is a "that's it?", here's the end? If I have to move 35mi, why not 1500mi?
Essentially I see people staying here under some promise that to me are broken dreams. Got to be a rebel of course.
Perhaps I can do that Log cabin year there too! Isolation does teach a lot of things really.
Also John, when you are out of a location (NYC) you do notice what you valued from there and little things that may have been overlooked, specially on a time back to town. It is fantastic to build up a sense of selfreliance, taking home where you are.
And just thought, if you hate winter it's fantastic to move around chasing each hemisphere summer!
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