October 10-November 1: Change Nick to Real Name

I was not kidding.
My name IS what i wrote, and it IS mispronounced misspelled mis-everything whenever possible.

At your service,
dr. Józsa Csaba non-esq. (although we do have an old family emblem)
 
I do have a story about a job candidate who was googled... and lost his spot on the list. However, in the case I know, the reason was not a case of forum participation, but a rather tasteless website this person had put together.

A few months ago, just for the heck of it, I googled myself... and was surprised to see all the hits from internet forums. But then, I'm a college professor and photography is a very legitimate hobby, so I don't mind.
 
Someone posted your name and e-mail on a public forum?

That's really as bad or worse than posting your phone number. I've seen that done by sellers... who are either desperate or naive.

Sorry to hear that, Dave.
 
I agree with people who have decided to use their real name (or the one they go by) at the end of their posts... But in the end it all comes down to your own comfort & we should respect some level of individuality. At first when I joined here a good deal of anonymity (at least on the surface) was the norm & I decided to follow that. As time went on & I bought from or spoke privately with other members and got to know their real names/addresses etc they got to know mine. I guess that also helped me decide to be less impersonal/anonymous in my everyday posts on RFF and I agree it helps to build a better 'community'.

As an aside... Which name to use is interesting to me because some of the men on my Dad's side of the family use their middle names as given names... I have not followed this convention myself, but it's a little quirk of my family that has always intrigued me.

I hope you all have a good day!

Peter
 
greyhoundman said:
Yes that was me....And the person who let it slip is a very nice person. Thought he was doing me a favor. Kind of backfired. :(
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I noticed as well... sorry to see that one slip caused you so much trouble... I know what getting a ton of spam dumped in your inbox is like & it is no picknick! Hope the new address sorts it out.

Peter
 
Pherdinand said:
I was not kidding.
My name IS what i wrote, and it IS mispronounced misspelled mis-everything whenever possible...(although we do have an old family emblem)
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You think you got it bad?
Kiu(pronounced Q) is short for Kiumars....how many of you people think you can pronounce that?
Kiu
 
sebastel said:
dear chang-sang xian sheng （先生） esq.,

while i got no problem to follow your desire to use the title "esquire", i still respectfully would like to know how you verify your claim to be "his royal highness"?

sebastel 博斯安esq.
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I'm the "master of my own domain"...
Ya know.. "king of my castle" and all that..
 
FrankS said:
I'll go a step farther and suggest our avatar be a picture of ourselves so that we not only know eachothers' names, but also what we look like. There would be greater honesty amongst ourselves then, IMO.
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Frank: You don't know how often in the past I thought that your avatar was a personal photo of yourself. Later on I found out that you were much younger and the avatar is a [beautiful] photo of your Dad. He looks very distinguished, by the way.

I realize that posting the full name may be too much, but listing the first name is sufficient.

Raid
 
ampguy said:
Raid,

I know you are a good person, but I wonder what this is all about. There is no more regard for privacy here than there is on myspace.com.

What you are asking for is unsafe, and unwarranted, IMHO.

Ted
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Ted: That's all I need ... a name. You are Ted, and all is fine :angel:
 
ChrisN said:
Raid, please keep in mind that some employers take a dim view of persons who spread themselves too publicly across the internet. In some fields this will impact your employment opportunities.
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Chris: A last name is not needed here. I know you as "Chris", and this is fine.
 
I don't mind sharing with you this funny incident that is relevant to what is being discussed about googling someone.

I was called in to a deposition as an expert witness in a law suit. The lawyer of the defendant had googled [at that time it may have been before Googlre.com]me and discovered that I was an acitive photographer, but he did not find me a Professor of statistics. His first question to me was to swear that my Vitae was correct!
 
that's funny!

that's funny!

I have to admit Raid, your name is unique!! First few months I was here, I thought your username had something to do with storage technology, and maybe you were educated in Calif., therefore the mis-spelling of "admin" :p

raid amin said:
I don't mind sharing with you this funny incident that is relevant to what is being discussed about googling someone.

I was called in to a deposition as an expert witness in a law suit. The lawyer of the defendant had googled [at that time it may have been before Googlre.com]me and discovered that I was an acitive photographer, but he did not find me a Professor of statistics. His first question to me was to swear that my Vitae was correct!
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My real first name is Jean-Marc (I'm not french, though) but Jamie is a nickname most people call me by. I actually don't pronounce it "jay-me" but more like Jean-Mi (with french pronounciation).
 
I changed my nick from full name to first name today. Thanks Joe!
As you see, I am learning from the experiences of others here.
 
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