Sparrow
Veteran
Whether or not the victim got over the crime is rather irrelevant when it comes to passing moral judment on what he did. And if regretting the crime is enough to get absolved for one's acts then I guess Adolf Eichmann didn't get a fair trial.
Obviously he never used the word "slut" (as I said, I paraphrased) but you can look up interviews on youtube where he defends himself by saying that she was sexually active, that she was a "young woman" and that it was consensual. Sorry, but that basically boils down to calling her a slut who wanted it. And again, even if that had been the case it would've still been his responsibility to say no, given the fact that he was 30 years her senior.
Look, it is obvious that a rape victim will suffer from being publically stigmatized as a rape victim and carrying that label for the rest of her life. That's basically the reason why many rapes go unreported.
To use a hacky phrase, two wrongs don't make a right. Just because the media bears some responsibility for her grief doesn't mean Polanski is any less to blame. On the contrary. It all started with his actions, which he did fully knowing that it was wrong, so it can be argued that even the pain she suffered from the media attention is his fault.
I don't know why you would assume that I have no problem with the media, paparazzi or misconduct in the justice system. But those are separate issues and they have no mitigating effects whatsoever on the crime that preceded them. All I'm saying is that I reserve the right to pass moral judgement on him for what he did and what he admitted to.
EDIT: Btw, I should add that I really do not feel very strongly about the whole thing and it doesn't keep me up at night. I'm just making a point that sometimes it's ok to pass judgement.
... the courts it would seem, Swiss in this instance, share my less simplistic moral view of the world when they looked at the evidence ... so yes, sometimes it's ok to pass judgement.