I suspect this is the type of thing he's talking about. This is one of my shots of a stranger I met off the street. I go for shallow depth of field because I didn't have the skill or opportunity to find a background with leading lines that would focus the viewer on the subject. Shooting them within a couple of minutes of meeting them also often leads to some pretty dull/distracting backgrounds as well, so shallow dof is safer.
Again, thanks for posting. Your pic, at least to me, is a perfect example of how selective focus can and should be used: an all but total blur, in indifferent light. We
know what is likely to be behind the principal subject: we are not interested in straining to see it. It's when the background provides real context, and isn't sharp, that the problem arises for me. Even then, it can be used intelligently, as in the picture 'quoted' in the post above.
Looking through the pics here, and reading the responses, two more things occur to me. One is that selective focus often works better in colour than in B+W (at least for me), and the other -- concerning the psychology of vision -- is that because our eyes focus on one thing, then on another, we are normally much less aware of the background in real life than in a photo: as soon as our eyes refocus on it, the background
becomes (in a sense) the subject.
In a photograph, where we can take in everything at once, on a single plane, selective focus works best when we can look at the principal subject; consider the background, and think, "Oh, yeah, background, I can ignore that" (just as we do in real life), and refocus our attention on the principal subject. When the background forces itself upon us -- when, in other words, we would refocus our eyes on it in the real world, so see what it was -- and it's lacking the information we want, THAT´S when shallow d-o-f fails.
In fact, as a further thought, I'd say that an ill-done selective focus shot is akin to the classic amateur error of the person with a tree immediately behind them, apparently growing out of their head. The photographer has not paid enough attention to the background, but instead of ignoring it, they have lazily assumed that they can throw it out of focus.
Finally, note 'ill done' and 'for me'. This is always on a case-by-case background, and intensely personal. Thanks to everyone who has responded so far.
Cheers,
R.