The Meaness
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Why is he automatically an idiot? The morning after my grandfather died, I would have had an argument with anyone about anything, just because I was in that frame of mind...
By carrying your camera about, taking snaps, you are creating these interactions, you can't know what history the people who are nearby have - whether you do or do not actually include them in the frame. The onus is on you to defuse them.
Or is empathy something we don't do?
Love this, Kully. Being understanding of others and giving their complaints the time of day will go a long way to giving everyone a little more breathing room on the street. I hate the "eff'em" attitude. As a teacher, I hate parent complaints. But most of the time, they just want to be heard. Usually I don't have anything that I need to change, but listening and trying to understand helps me be better, even when I'm not at fault.
I don't think caring about people will ever put a damper on most people's artistic vision. If it does for you, you're more dedicated to the craft than I will ever be.
I remember a few months ago a guy posting that he took a picture of a homeless woman and she threw a jar of her urine on him! I haven't worried about getting yelled at since then!