I suspect your local repairer is wrong. Very interesting he/she would say that.
Please don't grind anything on the lens. I doubt that is the appropriate solution. A very thin shim on the face of the adapter is a good start. I think Magic Tape is the same as Scotch Tape here in the western U.S. You can apply the tape (as a single layer, no overlapping strips) to the outer face of the adapter (the part that will mate with the lens when screwed on). It could then become a "permanent" repair for you.
As mentioned in other posts, I suspect the lens may have been "serviced" at some point in its history, and reassembled incorrectly. Its unusual for lenses to be "knocked out of standard" with a bump or drop and not have very obvious collateral damage.
If you want to have the lens calibrated to factory standards, there are a number of well-known Leica technicians who can do that. You'll see the big names here on RFF frequently and they are all good. For this particular issue, I can suggest Youxin Ye as probably the lowest cost with perfectly good work. There are also numerous quality repair techs scattered about the globe whose names we don't often see here, but I suspect your local repair person is not terribly well-informed about rangefinder cameras.
Youxin Ye is in Massachusetts. You'll find him with a Google search on his name.