Perhaps more insidious still is the trivialisation of discussion ... e.g. along the lines of "hahaha I love my GAS! 🙂🙂🙂 Don't worry about it!!🙂🙂".
Practiced consistently, it can soon derail any useful dialogue.
(This persistent trivialisation - even of overtly non-political discussions about the practice of photography itself - has finally triggered me to abandon another forum where I have been posting regularly for years)
I wonder about how both the ad hominen and trivialising responses might be driven by not only unwillingness or inability, but fear: What if my unexamined motives for consuming turn out to be be completely unjustifiable to myself?
Or perhaps thinking has just become very unfashionable?
An excellent analysis. And thinking HAS become very unfashionable in the Western societies.
In the mid-1990s I was attending a seminar in Central California. I was visiting with a friend of mine who knew of a mutual acquaintance from my years on Guam. This acquaintance happened to be the heir to a hotel fortune, and the family owned a famous villa on 17 mile drive in Monterrey. My friend called the acquaintance, and we ended up on a private tour of this amazing property. The carriage house had seven stalls, all of them filled with a variety of cars not the least of which was a Lamborghini and a Lincoln Town Car.
Out in front, in the driveway though, sat an Army surplus, olive drab-painted '65 Chevy Malibu wagon with one door caved in. I was perplexed and wondered who it belonged to, so I asked what it was about. The mutual acquaintance told me it was his daily driver.
Now I was REALLY perplexed. The guy has a Lincoln, a Lamborghini and several other cars to choose from... his family is wealthy beyond the dreams of avarice, and he drives
this? I stuttered a little searching for the right question and he chimed in and said, "It only costs me 15 cents a mile to drive it."
Here is a guy who has money. A LOT of money, and he says, "It only costs me 15 cents a mile to drive it." It was at that moment that I understood what wealthy people know that I didn't.
Not spending money is just as solid a way to preserve wealth as making it.
It was also, at that moment, that I realized how outrageous our consumerism had gotten, even by then. And, since then I have done my best to acquire the consumer goods I want at the best possible price. I also buy consumer goods that demand a high resale when I'm done with them whenever I can. I seldom buy new, preferring someone else to eat the initial depreciation on whatever the item is.
I'm not poor, neither do I consider myself wealthy, but I live comfortably with quality goods in my life for which I am grateful, and which I'd never have been able to afford had I not had that experience of hearing "It only costs me 15 cents a mile to drive it" in that context of wealth and luxury.
I am grateful for those who live on the bleeding edge of technology and who are willing to buy high and sell low, because that's when I'm able to buy technology a generation or two back which serves me well. In the digital world, I've been able to re-sell my equipment before it had no value and in some cases actually make money on it after using it for a couple of years. I've always wanted an M4-P and got the brochure when they were new. I managed to get one this year, free. I bought it in a kit with a Summicron, motor winder, and MR-4 at a very reasonable price. I managed to sell the lens, winder, and meter for what I paid for the kit; hence a free M4-P.
While thinking may be unfashionable, it is necessary so we don't get swept up by advertising claims. I don't buy brand-advertising, I buy products as I need them, and I do my best to be able to "drive" all of my consumer goods for "15 cents a mile."