1750Shooter
Established
This is s bit weird, but I thought since this is an international forum someone could help me. My Mother recently died & we have scattered her ashes on both coasts since she loved the ocean (I live on OR & the rest of the family is in the East), but she always wanted to travel to France (she was a French language & literature major in college) & our family has Scottish roots, too. I was windering if anyone in either France and/or Scotland would be willing to scatter some of her ashes there so I could feel she finally made it there. Thanks for any help. She was a really great parent who managed to transition to adult friend.
Leigh Youdale
Well-known
You might need to consider how the customs and drug enforcement people are going to view a small package of whitish/grey powder. Maybe check out how you can send it before enlisting anyone to help - you wouldn't want them to face gaol/jail through trying to help!
sevo
Fokutorendaburando
Even if the packet gets past that hurdle, it might only be so by being properly registered with its contents, which would put a firm stop to any uncontrolled private scattering - in much of Europe, there is no legal difference between handling ashes or a severed head, and any legal scattering of ashes requires hard to get and expensive permits for a out-of-graveyard burial.
Roger Hicks
Veteran
Sure. A choice of on land in our local village or (after a long wait) the Mediterranean (we should be there in July). Or (as Frances suggested) in a river. Either a local one or the Loire: we'll be in Chinon in April.
Ain't likely to be in Scotland for a while unless I go to Focus on Imaging in the UK and then go to see my father on Clydeside (in February/March).
EDIT: Following Sevo's post (which I have to admit had never occurred to me) I've checked and it's no to a river in France, but land and sea are OK as long as there's no urn. A paper packet/envelope sounds like a better idea. It's only a small symbolic amount after all.
Condolences,
R.
Ain't likely to be in Scotland for a while unless I go to Focus on Imaging in the UK and then go to see my father on Clydeside (in February/March).
EDIT: Following Sevo's post (which I have to admit had never occurred to me) I've checked and it's no to a river in France, but land and sea are OK as long as there's no urn. A paper packet/envelope sounds like a better idea. It's only a small symbolic amount after all.
Condolences,
R.
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