Roger Hicks
Veteran
Exactly, especially the highlight.I think that a lot of people who use the phrase 'comfort zone' probably don't have any real insight into themselves or realise what real discomfort can really mean. Likewise someone saying "think outside the square/box' often indicates to me that that person proably hasn't had an original thought in his life, if he uses a cliché like that, or isn't given to rigorous thought and method if all he can think of is some form of fantastical quantum leap.
What Brian Atherton alludes to is far more significant to me - an overcoming of inhibitions and a striving for new emotional challenges; to open up oneself to scrutiny and to give without receiving.
Cheers,
R.