Worse, some research shows that (at least high school and university) women talk about other people's problems, but (high school and university) men talk about their own.
I've been having this problem with my (photos / camera / lumbago---choose one) lately...
but back to the original thread: Simon Baron-Cohen has written a book about masculine brains vs feminine brains. He says---trust him, he's a scientist---that men's intelligence is calibrated to systems (e.g. engines, cameras, armies, etc.) and women's to relationships. But of course if men are so poor at relationships then it stands to reason that they've got to get together and talk about it, pool their slender resources. Gossip as necessary therapy for the challenged.