Those variations don't surprise me too much, except of course for the 3M. I tend to agree, the mount has been put on upside down. There are some odd disagreements there though all the same but hey, that's FSUs for you! The length of the threaded portion is, to a degree, irrelevant - it's the point at which is stops that matters and you can't easily change it nor would you want to.
Course of action: Lay the 3M on its back. Undo the 4 screws holding the mount in place. Lift off the mount and look for shims underneath. If there's a whole paper shim/shims or no shims (a "whole" shim usually means it goes around all 4 holes but isn't necessarily a complete circle) then turn the mount 180 degrees and replace the screws - do them just lightly then tighten them in an X-pattern in a couple of stages, so you won't distort the mount.
If there's a part shim, leave it in place initially and turn the mount as above. Take a close-up picture of a brick wall or something similar that's flat and has detail, keeping the camera back parallel to the subject (and use a tripod or other steady, to get the sharpest picture possible). Examine the photo under magnification for correct focus all around the frame. If it's not even, take the mount off again and move the shim 180 degrees so it's under the same part of the mount as it was originally before you rotated the mount. Re-check focus. One or other position should be correct. If you can find a suitable screen, you may be able to check focus by putting it across the film rails but keeping the setup aligned on a flat subject might be difficult.