bmattock said:
Consider this - when an outsider comes to town, everybody knows it right away. It is not necessarily the way he dresses, or the way he talks. He just doesn't fit in. He looks the wrong places, he gives off - as you say - the 'wrong vibe'. He is not going along with the norms of the crowd. He does not know how to behave.
When I was shoved onto a train in Japan for the first time, I was shocked beyond belief. Over time, I became invisible. Even though I was a foot taller than most of the others there, and vastly different-looking, I had learned to move with the crowd and I could not get a spare glance from passers-by if I my head had been on fire.
Every large city has its unwritten rules for pedestrian movement downtown. People who obey those rules fit in and are not noticed. People who do not are noticed immediately. This has been my observation. Initially, I took this for a 'zen' thing - I tried to emulate the behavior I saw, and noted that it worked for the most part. But it is not 'zen' as much as it is simply dropping below the threshold for conscious notice by the crowd. You're not actually invisible - you're just fitting into the rule by which the crowd has agreed to treat you as if you were.
Living in crowded societies requires complex rules of behavior, just as driving on crowded highways does. Like a hive of bees - we don't have to be 'polite' but we all have to behave as the group expects us to behave - within certain parameters - or we attract attention.
There are some really excellent observations on this thread, that I think are quite thought provoking for many of us.
I would HATE to see this thread, that has started so well, degenerate as other similar threads have, dashed on the rocks of the "rights or wrongs" of "privacy in public".
That said, I have particularly picked up on Bill's comments, because they found a resonance with me. Last year I was in Hanoi for a while. I am 6'3" and not inconspicuous. I found that if I walked around quickly, trying to avoid eye contact, I got hassled incessantly by street vendors. If I slowed right down, and maintained a steady pace, I was largely ignored. If I made eye contact, or smiled, I was pounced on again.
I came to the following conclusions.
1. Moving quickly, in an uncomfortable manner, indicated an unfamiliarity with my surroundings that marked me as a new arrival.
2. Moving slowly, steadily, indicated that I was not "afraid"; I had assimilated, and was going with the flow, or the grain of the place.
3. Making eye contact was interpreted as an invitation to engage, and most often, to try to sell.
The photos I took (which are mostly with a DSLR so not for posting here) were more considered, and more measured for taking my time. The shots I took on my first day, when I was still in mode 1. above, were crap.
Here are a couple taken with my IIIc, in mode 2.
Regards,
Bill