Judge not, lest ye shall be judged.
As far as this site goes, we can all say whatever we want. It's not real life. And although I defended ROger on another thread, where someone sought to denigrate his whole life, I think that attacking someone for being a plumber's wife, in an aside that has marginal relevance to this thread, does far more damage than did his previous, anonymous attacker.
Dear Paul,
I completely agree, and I'd like to apologize unreservedly to Philly for dismissing her as a plumber's wife. It was, as you say, an aside of marginal relevance, and of course I wish I'd never said it. There is absolutely no reason why a plumber's wife shouldn't be an artist, and if I see some of her work I may well agree that she is. This is not just an empty apology: I am genuinely sorry, because it was an unfair thing to say.
I do not however apologize for pointing out that it is silly to pretend that photographers use anything other than they want
and what they can afford. This is so self-evident as to be incontrovertible.
Nor do I apologize for my post about society deciding who is an artist. 'Society' is more than a partisan of a particular photographer, or someone trying to score points.
We all say stupid things when we're angry, and I get pretty angry with anyone who says "anyone can afford whatever they need" or that a Holga (or whatever) is all that any artist ever needs to create art. For some it's true, but it's hard to imagine Ansel Adams or Sebastiao Salgado doing as well with a point-and-shoot.
So, to recap, I said something stupid, in the heat of the moment -- as did Philly with her 'come back when you're sober' -- and once again, I apologize unreservedly. All I can say in my defence is that I try never to be gratuitously malicious (though apparently some people read me sometimes that way) and that I apologize for being so easily provoked.
Cheers,
R.