Prest_400
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That is very interesting as I also have noticed behavioral patters that are more impatient and anxious, as well as more socially awkward. Not really autism, but more on an ADHD pattern.I blame the Internet for this. In a profound talk the over use of Autism as a diagnosis came up, and in conversation the Internet was kinda blamed by us as the reason why a generation has lost the ability to read social cues, facial expressions, and body language. Think about how people interact less today then in decades past, and then compound that with social distancing that has been going on for 4-years due to Covid.
So is it the Internet, Covid, a world of less social interaction? To me Autism should not be confused with the new culture of a lack of social awareness that is surrounding and permeating society and the world. I think somehow some of our humanity has been lost.
To further all this I also say, “The world would be a better place without cell phones.” The Internet is taken yet another step further to permeate our lives: we can carry the Internet in our pocket.
Cars today are of safer design and are safer due to government mandates and regulations. Of course regulations have made costs go up. “The money has to come from somewhere,” I say.
But fatalities are up due to texting and distracted driving. This is a very serious problem and IMHO is about as serious a problem as Drunk Driving.
So know that I only have a “Dumb” flip phone, and I don’t text. This annoys people… Also I limit my time on the Internet because I want to avoid the anxious and crazy behaviors that I believe being wired to the Internet causes: basically “Maggie-Disease.”
So everyone now knows why I consider myself a lazy slacker and why I have a go with the flow mentality. I have to balance pretty much just the opposite. This juggling is not easy, but great project management skills have evolved further than when I worked at Grumman and at Brookhaven National Labs. At Brookhaven for me it was a pretty big construction project involving crews of people.
Know that managing Maggie is harder.
Anyways perhaps I’m not so smart, and perhaps my rants which at times present profound insights that actually make sense when the rest of the world does not make any sense at all is just being old school and not having been infected with “Maggie-Disease.”
My training in Journalism (Masters degree and a year of TV Broadcast Journalism experience) will state the obvious, the news on the Internet is dumbed down, simplified, has less depth, and specifically is a shorter form to deal with and promote shorter and shorter attention spans.
Around Grand Central I can no longer buy the Wall Street Journal in a hard copy, or The New York Times in hard copy for more in depth reporting.
Anyways call me old school, but the spread of the over diagnoses of Autism, Maggie-Disease, and lots of bad kinda crazy thinking or lack of it is a product of our time.
Old school works for me, but also it seems I get projected onto me that somehow I am missing out by being old school. In a ways I’m beginning to feel more the loner, not because I am socially distant or don’t participate in social media other than this embedded blog within this limited forum, but because my thinking and logic is becoming isolated. In this fashion I feel like I’m an “Outsider.”
Basically I’m a true outsider to the culture that has permeated that surrounds me. I am reminded of the film “Omega Man” and basically I’m Charlton Heston.
Cal
"I'm getting along some quide ADHD people" and even commented it. One of my recent friends is constantly on the phone and switching thought to thought. It can be exhausting to interact with them this way because there isn't a flow to it.
On a deep conversation, with a friend that became "too busy" and overwhelmed by work, I recall he was blaming at "perhaps I have ADHD". Our friendship devolved into an impossibility to meet up for a simple catch up because he is too exhausted to interact.
To that I saw that there is a disconnect and lack of accountability linked to the hyperconnected environment.
I recall when we were in the "death march" back when I visited NYC, that we talked with a construction foreman and this was the same topic. The small talk was way smoother than I was used to seeing (from a millenial environment). I would say, don't feel so much FOMO for being "old school".
Also, algorithms end up priming you and "tailoring" the environment. I recently noticed because Instagram, which I only use to keep up with some film community folks, now is pushing me content from 20 year old kid influencers. "What value does this bring to me?" This week I survived a round of layoffs and the internet environment just amplified the event, more than the initial feelings were. If not aware, it does become an echo chamber.
In a more positive light, I genuinely like socializing and have an interest in people and the networks around some activities; up to the point that I have volunteered at a local cultural association; Some people are calling me gifted and having a great memory but rather I am perhaps noticing that it's my curiosity and interest driving this.
Interestingly, I do have quite a good oversight of 2-3 different networks plus I am using internet to augment it, as a calendar of events and network mapper. Essentally interacting as old school did.
But reading your thoughts, I am thinking that this ability I possess might be more linked to NOT having fallen into this hyperconnectivity impatience?