I think you misread some of us.  While I admit there is sometimes a valid reason for a Rosa Parks action, I can't argue with every stupid public official I run into, or my life would be ruined.  
I could no longer take vacations, buy subway metrocards, or mail anything at the post office.   I could not drive or ride my bicycle, or even walk the streets.  
And frankly I just don't want my life to be ruled by the realization (or imagination) that most everyone around me is trampling deliberately on my rights.  I prefer to believe most are just ignorant, lazy, or just don't give a rat's a** about much of anything.
It is of course a valid discussion, about where to draw the line, when putting up with officialdom's endless crap.  
I have risked jail, but most of the time, I see the world for what it is - and act accordingly.