Who am I? I'm a professional artist with a long record of exhibitions, publications, and teaching. My work has sold to people all around the world. Unlike you, my work is available for anyone to see. Some people like it, some don't. That's the nature of art. At least I'm not afraid to show what I do, and how I do it.
I get emails every day from photographers who admire my work. Some just write to tell me that, others write asking for advice. I always answer honestly, completely, and simply so that they can achieve what they want without wasting time and costly materials. As many RFF members can attest, I have spent a lot of time with some, writing back and forth to help them solve a problem.
I don't charge anyone for this, though it takes a lot of my time. It is my way of giving back now that I am doing well. When I was younger, a lot of more experienced photographers freely shared advice, technical info, and even equipment with me because they liked my work and wanted to help me succeed. Several years ago, when I had dropped everything and moved back to my hometown to be with my son as his mothers mental problems became worse, I found myself unable to buy my son anything for Christmas that year. A couple of RFF members organized a collection to help my son and I. A huge number of you donated to that collection, which bought my son a very nice laptop computer, which he still uses. We are still amazed at the generosity of all of you here.
Some of you think I'm too blunt and outspoken. I don't believe in giving advice that is technically incorrect, because that just frustrates the person in need when they find that the what works for you won't work for them. What I said about needing a meter is based on solid science. Numerous studies of human vision have confirmed that the human eye is a very poor judge of the brightness of light. Some of you might be blessed with superhuman abilities, but most of the photos I see where people tried that technique are not well exposed. In any case, its not something most photographers can realistically do, even if you can, so advising it is not really helping the aspiring photographer.
Photography is an art medium that requires a lot of tech knowledge, and unfortunately there are a lot of myths and half-truths floating around because people try to mysticize it. Technical knowledge is just a set of tools, means to an end. Learn it correctly, and you will be able to produce anything your imagination can envision. Mysticizing technique just frustrates and discourages those we're helping.
I'm a 7th grade English teacher. If I let a student think something is hard or complex, I've lost him. Kids shut down if they think they "can't" do something. I've failed when that happens. Nothing I teach is beyond my kids' abilities, but it has to be presented in a way that they can understand quickly. Photography and adults learning it are the same. I answer a question precisely and with an answer that they can use to improve their work so they don't get frustrated and give up. If that makes me an asshole, so be it.