I could not agree more -- which is why, perhaps, I have never had my camera smashed or been physically assaulted as a result of taking a picture. I have on the other hand taken countless pictures of people in the street for some 43 years, and have only ever encountered seven (or so) objections in that time.
As I added to my earlier post in an edit, has anyone on this thread ever been seriously assaulted, or had their camera smashed, as a result of taking a picture, or does anyone know personally anyone to whom this has happened; at least, outside a war zone or a riot?
Cheers,
Roger
Working as the photo editor for the university paper and yearbook, I was close several times, surviving police horse back charges with batons swinging during anti war demonstrations.
However, I was shooting a photo of the sign in the student union for the Maoists, several followed me back to the office and tried to take my camera accusing me of photographing their faces, they grabbed my arms, telling me they would show me what Communists do to people. I pulled away and loudly said they were assaulting me, put my hand in my coat pocket warning them to back away as I was armed, which gave the campus cops time to arrive and settle things down. They never were allowed on campus again. Socialist candidate for president said these kind of people gave the lefties a bad name.
That count?
One of my 16 yr old students took a shot of the canal from a bridge in Amsterdam, and a red head in underwear ran out and yelled at him from 100 m, "You no look, you buy". He almost dropped the camera in to the canal.
For the beach, just hire Brad Pitt, they never seem to think he is leering or being creepy. (Just kidding) I remember the "girl watchers'" lens ads a long time ago.
My physics colleagues tell me that once photons are reflected, they belong to any one's retina they strike.
Funny how people are not so worried about photos at the beach in Europe.
And Roger, I agree with you, you talk to whom you talk to, people generally figure out with whom they wish to speak and who is interesting. There are many things to talk about, if some woman is interested in some other kind of relationship, she will figure a way to make that known. Not every conversation is a calculated prelude to some bizarre intention. Being easy, if they blow in my ear, buy me a few drinks, I may consider that a sign. ;-)
People get freaked out all the time in the US, too much tabloid news and editorials, everyone can be made to seem odd.
Very much in the eye of the beholder.