My Anniversary Speed has the side-mounted Kalart RF, there's a procedure somewhere on the Graflex.org website showing how to align the cam for your lens, so you can shoot with the wireframe viewfinder and focus with the RF, not having to reference the ground glass at all, ala press photog style.
The idea when using the RF is that you extend the bellows out to some predetermined stops on the focusing rails, which are calibrated preset with your specific lens and RF cam setting, so that the image is in focus on the ground glass when it's also in focus in the RF, for a wide range of distances on the bellows. Then, as you rack the focus knob in and out, they'll track together.
Another great thing about your camera is the focal plane shutter. This gives you the opportunity to use almost anything that focuses an image within the distance range of your bellows as a lens. You can make crude but workable lens boards from thin model aircraft plywood, painted black, and stick almost any lens on it. I'm using a 50mm diameter, 150mm focal length binocular objective from a 7x50 binocular. Wide open it's f/3 and very blurry on the edges, and stopped down to about a 1/8" hole is pretty sharp; a great portrait lens. The curtain shutter lets you time the exposures for lenses that don't have integrated shutters. This is one of the very best features of these old cameras that conventional LF cameras lack, a focal plane shutter.
~Joe
PS: I wouldn't date her, just go ahead and get hitched.
