Calzone
Gear Whore #1
Cal, you'd best keep Maggie out of Alabama! The way the locals around me mangle the English language would send her postal. The use of "them" for "those" and the use of the word "tooken" for took drives me crazy.
MFM,
Did you go to Catholic schools and get beat up by nuns? LOL.
Don't forget that my dad was a Chinese immigrant. He would scream at me all the time. Now my ears are kinda dead from his yelling. I was a horrible kid.
I was reminded of how I was when my daughter was born. My ex use to threaten to leave me with my daughter. It seems personality is innate.
It was in first grade that I got called into school to see a psycologist. Evidently they discovered a learning disability in her that I also have, a kind of dyslexia but instead of being visual it is like slurred hearing. Words and sounds get processed out of order, also sounds are not perceived or cut. This also deals with processing linear and serial processing. The result is a lot of jumbled thinking.
Not uncommon for very smart people to have learning disabilities. So like me my daughter displayed not only a difficult personality, a bad fierce temper, below average language skills, but also the advantage of advanced dexterity, an abstract mind, three dimensional reasoning, and advanced motor skills.
Note that ampidexterity runs in my family. I can box as a righty or a lefty, although my right arm is about an inch longer and has more power. My second oldest brother can write both lefty and righty.
Out in the Long Island suburbs when she was in first grade some third grade boy was picking on an other girl in her class who happened to also be the smallest girl in her class. Kia threw the boy to the ground a beat the piss out of him.
There were reports that when a teacher tried to break up the fight/beating that like fly paper she jumped on top of him again to beat him some more.
In third grade they begin teaching kids to write in script, but in first grade Kia could forge my signature on her homework. Note the criminal element. LOL.
Perhaps it was in kindergarden she asked me if the world is round why does it appear to be flat? I drew a circle on some paper, then I drew a larger circle, then an arc to explain that the planet is so big that we only see part of the circle. Pretty advanced abstract thinking for perhaps a 4 year old.
Kia also enjoyed good looks. Her mother was a bit of a trophy, a real stunning beauty. People would gawk at her and stare, both mother and daughter. At times this was a problem, but that's another bunch of stories.
So two other things in common. She was a great visual artist and was even given a full scholarship to the "Warburg Institute" in London. This is a school where if accepted you pay no tuition and go for free.
The last thing in common is that as kids and early adults we suffered from a certain amount of impulse control. In other words we were kinda crazy and hard to deal with.
Cal