I am one of those being addressed in the remarks by FrankS. And I have been re-considering, partly because of some very thoughtful and open PMs following my last post.
I like the comment about the cat avatars. I had to euthanize my elderly little pal last month, and though I still have my lovably goofy dog, I've lost my zen. I believe I'll try to find another zen kitty at the local shelter soon.
This AM I had a couple of external malignancies sliced out of me, and maybe some of my pent-up bile went with them. The fact is, there are many sharp, interesting, and clever people in this little community, and there's generally some comment from at least one of them which can elicit a smile.
One final point--I have to confess to a hopeless love for ugly bokeh; don't know why, but I like all the little ellipses and squiggles. Maybe I'm a closet impressionist.
I appreciate the timing of this thread, and my thanks to all who contributed.
Fred Morrison
(yossarian)