You should see the pressure plate through the gap/slit between the curtains as they move across the frame. As was noted earlier, capping happens when the second curtain catches up to the first one, decreasing or even closing the gap entirely. I watched your videos and didn't see that happening. The pressure plate is visible all the way across.
Another way to look for capping is to open or remove the back panel from the camera and hold it up to a brightly lit background and release the shutter while looking through the gate. This should be done without a lens mounted. If it's capping you will see the uneven exposure, even at 1/1000. If you don't notice obvious differences across the frame then it's probably good. This method, for my eyes, is a better way to look for capping.
In your videos taken at 1/250 and 1/1000 I noticed that the second curtain bounces a bit at the end, but it does not appear to bounce so far as to expose the film again. While this may not cause an exposure problem the curtain shouldn't bounce back. It appears that the brake isn't adjusted properly. I shot slo-mo videos of the curtain action at 1/1000 in an M3 and M6 and neither show curtain bounce.