I test a lot of LTM lenses with different mounts at the local camera shops before buying.
This is therefore a usual thing, to deal with (how to best unmount a LTM lens with adapter).
Here is what I do:
I never squeeze the LTM adapter manly tight, as possible on the LTM lens.
If all contact surfaces are plane, clean and properly finished without tents and damages + the thread is good, it is absolutely enough, to screw the adapter on hand tight ("handfest" - "Nach fest kommt ab!" ;-) )
When unmounting the adapted lens, I first push the lens release button and hold it with the left thumb.
I then grab the lens base with my right hand and unmount it.
If I unscrew the lens from the adapter, I simply turn the lens back a bit tighter and repeat.
Don't fumble with unscrewing the LTM lens and trying, to unmount the adapter.