From my perspective, all are welcome to comment.
I agree with you, the sharpness of this lens wide open is average. I don't think I would bother with it at all if it were a 1.4 or 1.5, there are too many other options. But is is 0.95. Have you seen Ned's Noctilux shots? When he posts his wonderful street shots, the last thing I consider is that the subject isn't tack sharp. The point is that he got the shot, and I, as a viewer, am able to experience a brief moment in his world.
As for OOF areas, there are many lenses that I really don't care for in certain situations. I still have several of them, one is a Nokton 1.5. But, it is situational, as I am sure you are aware. Do you really find the OOF areas in the first shot objectionable? In those really lowlight shots, it seems quite fine to me. I know the person shot is more questionable - the bubbly highlights are not to everyone's taste (maybe not my own, FWIW).
I recently I got a Hex 1.2 and it is, IMO, critically sharp at 1.2. I thought I might get down to one very fast lens with it. But the fact that I have to consider, and reconsider, whether the Canon's characteristics are good or bad is, in the end, an asset. The fact that it draws strong condemnation from the majority of photographers reinforces that, IMO.
"Ah, good taste! What a dreadful thing! Taste is the enemy of creativeness. Picasso"