It wasn't a confusing explanation, Steve, just not enough information for anyone to assess what the issue might be. When doing any troubleshooting one needs to identify all the parameters that go into the issue, whether you have a problem with your camera or your plumbing. Like in Erik's problem, he identified that it only happened with one brand of film, and gave photographic evidence of the issue (which might not be possible all the time). What's probably happening there is the new Kodak canisters are pinched too much on the ends of the film exit, and there isn't much he can do about it except alert Kodak to the issue.
The fact you bang off five frames before starting counting exposures will give you the feeling of tightness at the end of the roll like that because you are running out of film faster than what the camera is indicating. I usually determine that the film is on the spool good, give it one wind, close the back and make one more wind, reset the counter and start shooting. Yeah, sometimes I have a half frame at the start on some cameras so if I'm unsure I'll take two exposures of the same subject just in case. (I don't know, does the SP have auto reset on the counter?)
You don't need to tighten the film in the canister, just lightly do a rewind until resistance is felt, then watch on the next wind or two to see if the indicator is spinning.
As noted in other posts, Ilford is a thicker based film, so winding issues are not uncommon in some cameras. The back scratching though could be exclusive to the Nikons though, as I've never experienced that before, at least not that I've noticed on mine.
PF