OT: Story of a friend

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She joined our family during a 1990 visit to the Los Angeles area. We named the eight-week-old Himalayan kitten “Wicket’s Ework Lovey Be Mine.” The “Ewok” came from her resemblance to the furry little creatures in a Star Wars movie. Her large, round blue eyes gave her a perpetual “deer-in-the-headlights” look. The “Be Mine” was because she was born on Valentine’s Day.

Visitors usually referred to Lovey as the “Ghost Cat.” That’s because the only glimpse strangers usually got of her was a white ball of fur slinking off to a hiding place. That fur, similar in texture to cotton, coated everything, and she produced enough of it in a year to knit a large sweater. Another bad point was she sometimes had a hard time hitting her litter box.

When only family was around, Lovey would appear. If you said hello she responded with a “MEEOOOW” much louder than what you would expect from a cat her size. And if you asked her nicely, she would flop on the floor and roll over. She was a one-trick cat, but it was a good one.

Lovey wasn’t like our other cats. Our daughters sometimes referred to her affectionately as “Poor, dumb Lovey.” But we all knew she wasn’t dumb. She was simply a different breed of cat who marched to a different drummer.

Lovey arrived when our kids where pretty well grown. She had no experience with little children. Therefore, we were a surprised when she formed an attachment to Amazing Grace, our first grandchild. The cat put up with overenthusiastic pats and shouts that would have sent her scurrying for cover if delivered by an adult.

A month ago we went on vacation. When we returned we discovered Lovey wasn’t eating solid food. We tried tempting her with everything from gourmet cat food to steak and bacon (her favorites) but she refused to eat. She would only sip a little milk and water. She lost weight. Last Saturday I noticed she seemed wobbly. I told my partner in life it was time and she reluctantly agreed.

The vet asked if someone wanted to be with Lovey. I didn’t, but I couldn’t let her be alone with strangers. They put us in a small examination cubicle while my mate remained in the waiting room. I held Lovey on my lap, petted her and scratched her under her chin. We sat there for nearly twenty minutes. When she became restless. I told her what a fine cat she was and sang her an old song from the 1950s -- “The Cat Came Back.” She seemed to like it.

The vet, a young woman, came in. After some preparations I put Lovey on a sheepskin pad on a table and stroked her fur. The vet pushed a plunger. Lovey laid her head on her paws, closed her eyes, made a low purring sound and was gone.

Sara joined us. We stood there petting Wicket’s Ewok Lovey Be Mine -- crying over a cat who was seldom seen and could only do one trick.

Researchers claim having a pet around can make you healthier. Losing a pet can break your heart.
 
A sad story I well understand having the same thing happen to our cat, but at the age of 21 1/2. Probably renal failure which there is nothing much to help. Lovey was at least 15 which is a typical cat lifespan. Be content that you had all this time with her, I know you will miss her. We had our cat cremated and take his ashes with us whenever we go to one of his favorite places. Who knows?
Condolences, Kurt M.
 
Your story struck home as we are waiting on word from the vet on whether or not our belove Rat Terrier has cancer. We have been through that grim scene you described once before and do not wish to have repeat it. The heartache is the same as in losing a human member of the family and very deeply felt. We feel your pain and offer our deepest sympathy.

Bob
 
My condolences as well. We lost our Siamese, Houdini, to a congenetial heart condition that, up to that time, we didn't know he had. He simply ran down the steps and dropped dead. It was the most difficult thing my wife and I have ever gone through.
 
My sincere condolences also! It's strange but I can cope with humans being injured or even death, but when it comes to a pet I fall apart 🙁
 
Thank you all for your condolences. Life would be a lot simpler if humans and their pets had the same life spans. I have gone through this several times in 60 years and, if anything, it gets harder, not easier. Perhaps it its because as we get older such events remind us of our own mortality.
 
Happend do me with cats and dogs many times and then with my father. It's allways the same, I have to accept that live ends once, but I can't.

And then there are these spooky moments like last monday when I had the feeling that my father is at the lake, fishing as he liked to do on summer evenings. So I went to the lake, sat down for an hour and had the feeling that my father and the two shepheards we had when I was a child where there with me.
 
My most heartfelt condolences... But look, she was happy, she made you happy... and she had a good home, with all the love she needed and more.

My first cat had a really bad heart condition. One day, shortly before having lunch with my wife, I played with him and the string he loved to chase. When we sat down to eat, he took a breather, let out a very scary meow... and that was it: he was gone.

Again, sorry about your loss. 🙁
 
I read this story while sitting in the livingroom, watching my cat sleeping/snoring on her back beside me. She's 13 now, enjoying life. Thinking about your story makes me very sad, what you went through lies behind and ahead of me.

I feel with you.


P.S. Maybe it's best to wake her up now and play a little ballgame...?
 
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